There’s no question now, we’re in the home stretch with baby #2! Our due date is officially 5 days away! February 18, 2017 felt light years away when we started this journey in June and now it’s hard to believe we’ll be a family of four in just days! But seriously, any time this baby wants to make it’s grand entrance is fine with me. I’m mentally ready, my bags are packed, slightly rested from the weekend (about as good as it will get), there’s no snow in the forecast, all grandparents are in position and I’m pretty sure Andy is well over my daily (really hourly) complaining about my general discomfort.
So as we start to close this pregnancy chapter (FOREVER! There will be NO trying for a 3rd folks), I thought it important to take a moment to reflect….because I may never get a moment to myself EVER again.
- What did I like most about being pregnant? To be honest, the 40 weeks leading up to child birth is not my fave. It’s uncomfortable, filled with restrictions on things I can’t eat, drink and do (which I don’t do well with) and just exhausting. But knowing at the end of this journey I’ve helped create a perfect little person with my best friend is pretty astounding and humbling. It somehow makes it all worth it. I’d also add that pregnancy is without question a bonding experience. The level of truly ‘REAL’- I mean downright deeply personal and sometimes gross- conversations I’ve had with my closest support system of other mommies has without question strengthened bonds with some of my most favorite people. I feel so lucky to have an amazing network of women and a wonderfully understanding husband in my corner.
- What did I like least? I miss wine. And not feeling like I’m constantly going to pee my pants.
- Does it feel different the second time? Yes! Baby P #2 is WAY more active than Andrew. I’m talking full somersaults and kickboxing in utero…constantly. God help us if this child is even more active, energetic and curious than Andrew!
- What am I most excited about? Seeing Andrew as a big brother.
- What am I most nervous about? Handling the inevitable toddler tantrum in Costco, Target, Wegmans, etc. with a fiery two year old and infant. Literally carrying two kids at once scares me…
- Girl or Boy? We took an unofficial poll a few weeks ago. Grandma and Grandpa James vote girl. Coco and Papa vote girl. Aunt Kiki votes girl. The Barbas vote boy (though are VERY much hoping for a niece!). Andrew just wants to name the baby- boy or girl- Bob. Daddy won’t commit to a guess. And mommy just wants it healthy and out.
- When will the big day actually happen? Today works. But I think this kid will be much closer to their due date, just like big brother.
So for now we wait, enjoy our last few days with just Andrew and I look like this: 